Sunday, February 22, 2026
Nowhere Burning A Dark Tale of Family, Friendship, and Survival by Catriona Ward
Wednesday, December 31, 2025
Creeping Cults: The Culting of America by Daniella Mestyanek Young and Amy Reed
The Culting of America: What Makes a Cult and Why We Love Them by Daniella Mestyanek Young and Amy Reed
Many thanks to Otterpine and NetGalley for providing me with
an advanced copy of The Culting of America: What Makes a Cult and Why We Love Them by Daniella Mestyanek Young and Amy Reed. I’ve noticed more and
more books focusing on cults, examining them from different perspectives. Not
just the lurid, true crime or primarily academic type books that seemed to analyze
some of the more notorious cults from the past 50 years or so (The Manson
Family, The People’s Temple); rather books like Amanda Montel’s Cultish
(which Mestyanek Young and Reed frequently reference) and Jane Borden’s Cults Like Us take a more nuanced approach to examining the issues of cults and
how many groups and institutions in our lives closely mimic cults. Borden’s
book argues that America’s founding was itself based on the cult of the Protestant
Ethic, among other religious beliefs that have gradually become part of many
American’s identities. Mestyanek and Reed make similar claims while developing
their own aspects of group dynamics, drawn from research and scholarship, to
investigate and examine the practices of various groups and institutions. As
the authors acknowledge, its sometimes hard to determine what a cult is, and
with Mestayanek’s own personal experiences growing up in a destructive
religious cult and serving in the US Army, she identifies elements of these
group dynamics in both. Furthermore, I appreciated their advice to readers to
move beyond binaries, looking at whether a group is a cult or not, or thinking
about good or bad outcomes, with a call to think about the complexities of belonging
and more importantly leaving these groups. What costs might members entail with
exiting the group, whether they are social, financial, or professional. Also
like Borden’s book, Mestyanek and Reed also reference the more recent political
and social events in America to examine how instability, lack of connections
and relationships, and mistrust and resentment can fuel the rise of cults as a
means of filling a void for these connections and beliefs.
Both Mestyanek and Reed use real world examples from well-known
cults, institutions and groups, as well as lesser-known examples, to highlight
and identify the ways these groups align with their group dynamics.
Furthermore, both authors include their own personal examples of participation
with cults, institutions and groups to provide further evidence of the seeming
benefits and potential drawbacks of membership within these groups. I also appreciated
how the authors make use of both scholarly sources and more popular literature
like Montell’s book, as well as other first-hand accounts from cult survivors
and escapees. It lends a sense of authority and expertise, while also making
the content relevant and accessible to a general audience. Furthermore, despite
a rather dark and tragic topic, the authors use humor and sarcasm at appropriate
times to lighten the mood. The book is filled with many relevant examples that
help to highlight the specific practices of these groups and institutions to
attract and sustain members. I think it is interesting to see how fine a line
the nature of members is for some of these groups like the military and
Alcoholics Anonymous, groups which typically are held in high esteem, but also
display elements of cult-type membership and potential high-costs for members
leaving. I can also understand the pushback that the authors received, but I
think they are raising important points about the nature of the groups and
their attempts to sustain members, not necessarily arguing that they are inherently
bad. However, in reading these examples, we can see how others may misuse or
misconstrue some of the elements of these groups to make false promises or to
build on more familiar institutions to attract followers and those who are in
need of some kind of change or future goal. In particular, Chapter 6, “Distinguishable
Vernacular,” was one of the more fascinating sections since it deals with the
language of cults and groups. While this was the focus of Montel’s book, Mestyanek
and Reed examine some different examples and show how shared language can alter
our sense of identity and belief, creating a unique bond among members. I think
this is true of almost any group, whether it is a friend group who shares specific
slang or a work group that may use specific acronyms and terms to define and
solve problems in the field. I know that whenever I’ve started a new job,
acclimating to new language, specifically to acronyms, takes almost as much
work as learning software or systems.
Mestyanek and Reed examine how often the beliefs that groups
adhere to can often spiral into extremism, and how technology like social media
and the internet can accelerate belief to action through disinformation and
isolation. Mestyanek provides an example from her ex-husband’s radicalization,
along with reminders of Q-Anon and the January 6th Insurrection to
further show how seemingly regular people, our neighbors, community members,
and friends can all be susceptible to the tricks and deceptive practices of cult
leaders. However, this book provides an awareness of these practices, along with
some useful checklists and references to “culty things.” I think, though, that one
of the most important takeaways in the book is reframing our thinking around
cults, shifting from binary, either/or thinking, to examining ideas of
membership and belonging in a more complex and holistic manner. In one of the
final sections written by guest author Rebecca Slue, also known as The White
Woman Whisperer, “The distinction between ‘group’ and ‘community’ is a matter
of foundational values and relational truth. Groups are built to be functional,
often around a cause, a mission, or a leader.” This last section was also
incredibly important in not only reaffirming our sense of belonging to communities
and not just groups but also affirming our sense of agency in seeking out these
communities and ensuring that they remain communal and democratic. While
sharing decision making and responsibilities (and accountability) can be time
consuming and tiring, it is essential for the health of the community to
involve all. Although frequent references to more notorious groups and cults
are found in this book, the authors also frequently reference how more and more
work situations can become cult-like, blurring the boundaries between work and
belonging. Furthermore, they note how some careers are considered a calling and
offer members a strong sense of identity and belonging. While I feel grateful
to have a career where I don’t necessarily experience that level of creeping
cultiness, I have had jobs where there has been that kind of pressure to work
outside of proscribed hours, and I feel like this book offers an important
message to many people, not just those interested in cults, psychology, or
current events. Rather this book has important insights and ideas about
belonging, community, and working, and shares these ideas with research and anecdotes,
making the ideas and insights more accessible and understandable. Highly
recommended.
Saturday, June 21, 2025
Examining the Consequences of Religious Extremism
Under the Banner of Heaven: A Story of Violent Faith by John Krakauer
I was excited to read this book because I am really
interested in religious extremism, sects and cults, and I loved Krakauer’s book
Into the Wild. Under the Banner of Heaven follows the Lafferty
family and their violent and repressive views of the Church of Latter Day
Saints (LDS). Krakauer follows the Lafferty brothers, who took over a family
chiropracting business, but also became skeptical of government regulations,
leading one of the brothers to run for political office on an anti-government
position. Despite taking place nearly 40 years ago, I found the book relevant
today, with many people being averse and questioning the role of government in
our lives. It seems like every so often, there is an uptick in anti-government
movements, often bolstered by violence or movements to challenge rules and
regulations. Both January 6th and the impact of COVID have created
these kinds of adverse reactions to the government’s attempts to regulate. Under
the Banner of Heaven looks at these individuals and their beliefs from an
earlier time, and kind of provides some more context for the origins of these
beliefs. I’ve read other books about the origins of Oklahoma City and the Order
from the 80s, and it seems like the Lafferty brothers have taken the kind of
religious extremism along with limited work/economic opportunities, and threats
to traditional ways of life that other violent, anti-government movements have
experienced. Although the events perpetrated by the Lafferty brothers are
violent and self-serving, Krakauer presents a compelling story, interviewing
the brothers and sharing their own testimony and experiences to tell the story.
He pairs this with a history and important events in the development of
Mormonism, something that was both helpful and incredibly interesting to learn
about. The historical chapters provided a better context for understanding the
religion of Mormonism, and how some of these extremist beliefs have served as
an extension. Furthermore, these chapters also helped to understand how the
traditions associated with Mormonism provided the brothers with a way to
challenge what some of their wives and other women in the Mormon community were
seeking, like work outside the home or education. This was a compelling book
that was hard to put down. Although there is a brutal murder at the center of
this story, Krakauer’s research and exploration of the factors that led to the
murder create a complex story that requires the history of Mormonism to better
understand it.
Saturday, May 31, 2025
Culture Creep: Notes on the Pop Apocalypse by Alice Bolin
Culture Creep: Notes on the Pop Apocalypse by Alice Bolin
Saturday, March 29, 2025
American Ideologies and Cults: Exploring Cults Like Us by Jane Borden
Cults Like Us: Why Doomsday Thinking Drives America by Jane Borden
Big thanks to
Atria/One Signal Publishers and NetGalley for providing me with an advanced
copy of Jane Borden’s Cults Like
Us: Why Doomsday Thinking Drives America. This was a fascinating book, but also not quite what I expected for a
book about cults in America. I am fascinated by cults and how people become
involved in them, partly because it seems to strange and antithetical to me to
completely give one’s self to a group. In fact, it seems somewhat unamerican to
consider how one might lose themselves to a group and a guru, willing to engage
in questionable behaviors and activities. Recent books like J. W. Ocker’s Cult Following provide an overview of some of the more notorious cults in recent
years, while Amanda Montell’s Cultish examines how elements of cults are used in some
more popular activities that we might not consider cults. In fact, Borden’s
book seems to have more in common with Cultish in how she seeks
to look at some of the conceptual markers of cults and find ways that American
ideology and beliefs have largely incorporated this kind of thinking. That is, Cults Like Us seeks to define what and how cults operate, and then apply those
definitions to other areas of American life and groups that we might not
necessarily consider to be cults. It’s a fascinating way to re-examine what we
consider to be American and the values that we often champion as making us an
exceptional country (even if that mindset and perception is questionable, if
not altogether gone with the current Trump dismantling, er uh, administration).
I was a little surprised and challenged by this book since I assumed it would
be more like case studies of different cults, but I found this book to be
incredibly fascinating and enjoyed the challenge of expanding the conceptual
markers of cults to other areas of American life. Borden uses both infamous and
less familiar examples of cults and even some examples that we might not
consider to be cults to make her argument about American’s have incorporated
many of these elements into their lives, belief systems, and expectations for
society and the groups they seek out. Although
she mentions MAGA, January 6th, and QAnon a few times in the book,
there are also many implicit examples of how Trump’s methods and approaches to
cultivating a following employ many of the tactics that cult researchers have
identified as markers of cults. What I found even more challenging and troubling
was the notion that many of these elements have been a part of America’s
founding, from both Columbus’s arrival in the Caribbean to the Puritan’s
colonization of New England. The Author’s Note, Introduction and early chapters
all detail how this kind of thinking was part of the reason for Europeans
seeking out new land. Part of this is, what Borden calls, apocalyptic thinking,
and she does a great job recontextualizing the definition to not just mean end
times, but more like an uncovering or exposure of “the truth”, a revelation. According
to Borden, Columbus’s trip to the New World was in part to hasten the second
coming of Christ, while the Puritans also believed that the Catholic rule in
Europe were also bringing about the end times. They, like Columbus, believed the
Americas to be Eden like, a new land for a new start. Although their initial exposure
to the land was rough, they began to incorporate beliefs and practices that not
only focused on work and survival but also focused heavily on control of the
group and regulation of behavior. It was fascinating to learn more about these
historical figures and groups that Americans often see as heroic and unique, only
to consider them in a new light that reconsiders their actions as both fearful
and cultlike. In particular, the organization and practices of the puritan
communities was shocking to learn more about, yet, many of us know the kind of violence
and mayhem that was eventually led to the Salem Witch Trials and the deaths of
19 people from hanging and one from crushing stones. Nevertheless, Borden uses
these historical figures and groups to help readers understand not only why
Americans seek out groups with high control, but also how it has become such a
part of American culture, and, in her conclusion and later chapters may be a
general feature of human behavior.
Other chapters in
the book look at other cult elements including how we often look for strongmen
or a kind of singular hero to save us from impending doom. As Borden cites
other cults and groups who use these kinds of threats to better empower and enable
the strongman’s control of others and strict regulation of their behavior. It’s
that fear that is the mind killer and hastens the death of the individual and
submission or conformity to the group. Again, although he is mentioned several
times, it was somewhat scary to think about the implications behind these
examples and how there are current, modern correlates in today’s politics. It
also made me wonder whether Donald Trump really loves the country with how
often he lambasts it and describes the world as such a hellscape. His
perception of America, as someone who is largely privileged and has access to
exclusive experiences and resources, is much different from mine. Regardless, Borden
shares these important insights to further recognize that the current political
and cultural landscape is not too different from other eras in American history
and is largely representative of the kind of American thinking that has been a
part of the initial colonizers who brought religion, culture and ethos to the
shores of America. Again, it’s kind of eerie how both natural and man-made
events (war) tend to hasten this kind of thinking of end times and how easily
people abandon rationality and look to strongmen and groups for protection. It’s
also scary how these kinds of events can be both manipulated and manufactured
to create conditions of pliability and fear to empower leaders and strongmen. Another
chapter focuses on the idea of exceptionalism or being a chosen one, which
again seems like an element of both organized religion and more recent ideas of
politics. It helps to also create a division between believers and nonbelievers
that leaders exploit to further insulate their group and possibly bend them to
take action against nonbelievers who might be deemed as threats (sounding
familiar?). This also comes up in Chapter 6, where Borden presents an “Us vs.
Them” ideology. However, I really enjoyed the lesser known cult examples she
shares to highlight instances of these practices. The one example from this
chapter on the Oneida Bible Communists was shocking to learn about. The next
chapter on Rebellion and Anti-Intellectualism was also fascinating to learn
about Mankind United and how its founder relied on conspiracy theories (which
are “kissing cousins” with cults, according to Borden) to further his beliefs. Throughout
the book, Borden uses other examples of cults to show how the founders and
leaders often took from other belief systems, cults and conspiracy theories to
cobble together their ideas and further empower their leaders and strongmen. Chapter
4 looks at Consumption and Salvation, and how cult leaders often use our desire
for success, health and improvement to drive consumption of their products,
whether it comes in the form of a cream, pill, or seminar/webinar. It was surprising
to learn about John-Roger, the leader of MSIA, and how he exploited his followers,
especially young men. MSIA, a cult I didn’t know anything about, “blatantly
ripped off ideologies…of a movement called Eckankar” which also ripped off
other movements. Again, we can see how these cult founders often just borrowed
and remixed the ideas of others to exploit a new group looking for something to
improve their lives. As Borden notes throughout the latter chapters, cults and
religious movements (like the different Great Awakenings) often follow a period
of social upheaval or change, and the leaders look to exploit people’s
confusion or desire for improvement in these times. Chapter 5 links multilevel
marketing scams like Amway to cults, and shows not only how the leaders of
these programs, like Betsy Devos’s father-in-law, used their positions and connections
to avoid the kind of legal challenges that would properly hold these kinds of pyramid
schemers accountable and protect those at the bottom of the scheme propping up
the wealth of others. I think that Amanda Montell also talks about MLM in her
book Cultish, but not to the extent that Borden interrogates
the history and practices of these scams. It’s shocking to really look at how
these programs exploit the desire of others for success and wealth, but also
how they use the American/Protestant ethos of hard work leading to success to
further exploit others and continue to push them to buy and sell. Again, this
kind of American ethos tied in with our need for consumption is what begets the
kind of leaders who devise and exploit MLMs. Chater 6 which explores Identity
and Isolation and examines the kind of “Us vs. Them” mentality that cults inculcate
in their followers was particularly relevant in our current society as a
largely unpopular movement seems to have overtaken the government and
continually uses bad faith arguments, relies on people’s ignorance, and
continues to strike a defensive and divisive tone when making their case for
the unravelling of the federal bureaucracy. I couldn’t help but think of the Christian
nationalists like Pete Hegseth and Russel Vought who have explicitly called for
violence and pain to their enemies. Not sure how these fellas bring Americans
together, but it seems like a strange stance to take for a follow of Christ who
advocated for peace and love. Nevertheless, Borden uses the Nuwaubians and
Dwight York, who originated in NY as the Ansaru Allah Community. Ocker
discusses them in his book Cult Following, and I also read recent
books about De La Soul and MF DOOM, who came from families who were also
adherents to York’s system. It’s a fascinating, yet sad and troubling movement,
that sought to use the Civil Rights and Black Power movements to bring about
change in Black American communities, but ultimately York’s sexual exploitation
of his followers led to the downfall of his organization. However, as Boden
writes about York, he seemed not too much different from other cult leaders
that she describes like John Noyes, who was the founder of the Oneida movement
nearly 130 years earlier. Thus, Borden effectively ties these groups together,
often emphasizing the similar behaviors and methods that the leaders and their
organizations use to exploit followers and use them to not only advance their
own agendas, but also to harm or eliminate any of those who are skeptical or
present potential threats to their power. The last chapter focuses on our
desire of comfort and how leaders will often present cults as a way to bring about
comfort and release to our suffering. Borden uses the example of Love Has Won,
which was a relatively new cult, but one that was presented in an HBO Max
documentary last year. Like many cults, this one was not only strange, but also
sad, in how the leader brought about her own demise, yet how people strangely
accepted her failing health and rationalized their own decisions and complicity
in her deterioration. Despite being a shorter chapter, I think Borden makes
some important arguments here about how our desire for comfort and avoidance of
pain and suffering may lead us to seek out questionable motives. What is even
more interesting is how she emphasizes the kind of income inequality and unequal
access to proper healthcare can and has led people to make rash and unhealthy
decisions, whether it is from ingesting the silver tincture that Love Has Won followers
kept taking to those who held grievances against the elite and wealthy who
Trump exploited to take up arms on January 6th. The conclusion is
also important to read, as Borden ties her ideas together and reemphasizes the
notion that cults, and especially apocalyptic thinking are a major part of the
American identity. While this book was not necessarily what I thought it would
be, it is an important read that challenges our ideas about cults, why people
join them, and how they are interwoven into the fabric of our culture and
society. A really interesting point that Borden makes towards the end of the
book is how technology has largely atomized the kind of thinking and beliefs
that cults exploit, allowing cults and their leaders to have a further and more
powerful reach. While I agree, I don’t think this was the original intention of
the internet, nor any social media company. I think that these started with
good intentions, especially the early communities of the internet (especially the
Whole Earth Lectronic Link), but sadly others found ways to exploit this tool
to their own ends, and still others find ways to take advantage of the grief, anger,
and other negative feelings that are the result of continued discrimination, exploitation,
and inequality (maybe this is Trump’s new DEI) that have expanded over
the past few decades. There is a lot to explore with this book, and I would love
to revisit it again. It’s a challenging and thought-provoking book, but one
that is especially relevant today in making sense of illogical and seemingly unamerican
behavior. Borden brings a serious and ardent tone but also balances it with
some humorous and scathing takes on cults, politicians and our society. I
really appreciated these opportunities to lighten such dark topics and examples.
Furthermore, I think that this kind of approach helps to make her conclusions,
especially about human nature more relatable.









