Son of the City: A Memoir by Dante Ross
Son of the City book cover
Author, A&R, but no scrub Dante Ross
I’ve been reading a bunch of music memoirs, especially about
the downtown NY music scene. In the past few months, I read Thurston Moore’s Sonic Life and Chris Stein’s Under a Rock. Both books were good and
explored how their respective bands benefitted from the diverse musical scenes
that helped birth punk, noise, and alternative rock in the 1970s and 80s.
Interestingly, both books had connections to the emerging Hip-Hop scene; Thurston
Moore shared one episode where he either attended or almost attended Kurtis
Blow’s Christmas Rappin’ recording; similarly, Blondie were a part of the
downtown scence that included Basquiat, Keith Herring, Ramalzee, and Fab 5
Freddy, featuring Fab 5 in the song and video for Rapture. Dante Ross may have
slightly overlapped with these memoirists too, but his experience growing up in
NYC in the late 70s and early 80s was a little more outside of this downtown
scene. I absolutely loved this book, and this was by far the most entertaining
of the 3 music memoirs dealing with NYC’s downtown scene (as a side note, one
other memoir, Kathleen Hanna’s Rebel Girl, was also fabulous and has a
connection with the Beastie Boys, much like Dante Ross does). There were so
many great elements to Dante Ross’s memoir. I found his voice to be so real and
also entertaining. I loved that he used hip-hop vernacular that I haven’t heard
for a minute. It added to a fun and relaxed style of narrative, even when some
of his early life was not always a crystal staircase. Growing up with an absent
drug addict father and an alcoholic mother who struggled with keeping a job and
maintaining her mental well-being, Ross candidly and fearlessly shares how
challenging this was with a wise and introspective perspective that seems to
indicate how much he gained from these experiences trying to find shelter,
friends, and food, or surviving, in NYC. While his mother had her own
challenges, Dante also paints her as a committed activist who kept to her
ideals. One story he shares about the NYC blackouts was really interesting and
made me think about my own parenting and whether I maintain my principles in
the face of challenging situations. Ross also shares how he helped his friend
learn to read, diagnosing him as dyslexic when the schools had more or less
given up on him. These experiences also help Ross explore his own privilege,
despite not having much money and living a precarious situation at home. Although
I knew about Dante Ross from De La Soul, I didn’t realize how deep and wide his
musical roots are in NYC and beyond. Ross hung out with in the NYC hardcore
scene that birthed the Cro-Mags, and shared his amazement at seeing Bad Brains
in the early 80s. He also details the birth and evolution of the Beastie Boys,
and these were some of the funniest and most joyous scenes in the book. I read
Dan LeRoy’s great book about Paul’s Boutique, and this is another
insider perspective about that time and the challenges that the Beasties faced
in transitioning from Def Jam to Columbia. Furthermore, I think that Ross’s
friendship with the Beasties and his participation in a wide array of musical
styles early on helped shape his perspectives on hip-hop. Ross eventually falls
in with Tommy Boy, helping to bring De La Soul to a larger audience. Looking at
De La Soul, Queen Latifah, and A Tribe Called Quest, all acts that Dante Ross
had a hand in getting record deals, you can see how his omnivorous musical
tastes helped him work with these artists who were different from the more
mainstream B-Boy brand of hip-hop. These acts, and Dante Ross’s role in
promoting these acts, really helped to challenge the boundaries of hip-hop,
extending them for the better and re-shaping the rules for what was acceptable
in hip-hop circles. I think that the diversity in the downtown NYC musical
scene had a lot to do with this. These acts, not quite alternative or backpack
rap yet, brought in different , jazzier samples, conscious lyrics, and an
Afrocentric sensibility towards fashion. It was really interesting to see this
theme running through the artists that Dante Ross worked with throughout his
career. I loved reading the later chapters as well. It’s not just Dante Ross’s
voice that is so enthralling, but also the fact that he was working with so
many of the rappers and groups that I loved in my early adolescence. Reading
through this book was like reminiscing—but also learning since Ross shares some
incredible stories of working with artists like Leaders of the New School, Pete
Rock and CL Smooth, Grand Puba and Brand Nubian, MF DOOM (Cev Luv X of KMD), 3rd
Bass, Guru, I could just go on, but this was like the wall of cassettes and
crates of records in my high school bedroom. Reading about working with ODB,
KMD and later DOOM provided me with an insider’s perspective of these artists,
and I really liked that his detailing of his close work with ODB and DOOM
helped to provide another viewpoint, showing how thoughtful and creative these
artists were. I think that many people recognize DOOM’s creative genius, but
Ross explains that he has been upset about how people view ODB, and his stories
helped to show how intentional and creative ODB was in creating his persona and
the arti and design for his album. Although I’m not a big fan of Everlast’s
solo work, Dante Ross produced and really had a hand in helping Everlast get
this album going. This was also a great section of the book. His descriptions
about the challenges and health risks they faced in creating this album were
captivating. I loved learning more about the creative process of making music,
and especially the technical aspects of it. I’m amazed to see how Dante Ross
didn’t really have a music background beyond being a huge fan, and worked his
way up from working in the mail room at a nascent Def Jam to become a creative
force in not only artist and repertoire, but also in production and beat
making. It was really cool to see his own growth in the field—working with
artists and record labels—and eventually moving into musical production. I
really appreciated Ross’s candidness about his life, whether sharing about his
family, his loves and losses, or his substance abuse and eventual sobriety. I
felt like beyond the entertainment of the stories he shares, he also drops
knowledge about career management, relationships, both romantic and platonic,
and mental health. Maybe it’s all that conscious hip-hop he’s been a part of,
but he’s skilled at subtly kicking science to the masses. Finally, I loved that
I finished this book on father’s day. I didn’t know anything about Dante Ross’s
dad, but he starts the book out talking about how his dad was the kind of
motivating force in starting the book; his later chapters go over being with
his dad during his final year or so. It was really beautiful, and I can tell
that the sobriety has given him some perspective on his relationship with his
father and his eventual passing. As someone who also had a complicated
relationship with his father, it helped me remember the better times and how I
was able to be there for my dad during his final month. I really resonated with
Ross’s experience of being there and wanting to be there despite the specter
and impending fear of death. I realized that this experience had something to
teach me. It was kind of like a nice connection I felt to Dante Ross’s
experiences. One other final note, I loved that Dante Ross described another
A&R who he disagreed with as “a mountain climber who plays an electric
guitar”. Loved that Protect Ya Neck reference. Always thought that was
hilarious 90s stereotyping. If you are a music fan or a fan of memoirs, this is
a great one to read, even if you are not familiar with Dante Ross or the
artists he’s repped over time. Chances are, you’ve encountered some of the
music he’s had a hand in bringing to a larger audience, whether your from the
80s, 90s, or later. Really great memoir, and I hope that Dante Ross has more
books coming out.